The only standard way to lock an mbox is using a method called "dotlock". This means that a file named <mailbox-name>.lock is created in the same directory as the mailbox being locked. This works pretty well when the mbox is locked for writing, but for reading it's very inefficient. That's why other locking methods have been used.
It's important that all software that's reading or writing to mboxes use the same locking settings. If they use different methods, they might read/write to an mbox while another process is modifying it, and see corrupted mails. If they use the same methods but in a different order, they can both end up in a deadlock.
If you want to know more details about locking, see the mbox format page.
For Dovecot you can configure locking using the mbox_read_locks and mbox_write_locks settings. The defaults are:
mbox_read_locks = fcntl mbox_write_locks = dotlock fcntl
Here's a list of how to find out the locking settings for other software:
# procmail -v 2>&1|grep Locking Locking strategies: dotlocking, fcntl()
Postfix has two different ways to deliver to mboxes. One is the "mailbox" transport and another one is the "virtual" transport.
# postconf mailbox_delivery_lock mailbox_delivery_lock = fcntl, dotlock # postconf virtual_mailbox_lock virtual_mailbox_lock = fcntl
In the above case, if you used the "mailbox" transport, you'd have to change Dovecot's configuration to mbox_write_locks = fcntl dotlock or vice versa for Postfix.
If you used the "virtual" transport, it doesn't really matter if the "dotlock" is missing, since the "fcntl" is common with Dovecot and Postfix.
mutt -v|grep -i lock
Debian's policy specifies that all software should use "fcntl and then dotlock" locking, but this probably applies only to most commonly used software.